(POLISHED AND FIT FAMILY LIFE PREPARATORY ACADEMY & FINISHING SCHOOL)
…. Prepare more than repair.
What would happen if you stepped out of your house, heading to a destination you’ve never visited, with no prior knowledge of the route?
So many things could happen;
- Time would likely be wasted as you do trial and error.
- You might end up in unsafe areas, risking harm or even getting robbed,
- Frustration could set in, and you might decide to give up entirely and head back home.
Or imagine a better alternative;
- you get into a nice car driven by someone who has been to your destination before and knows the best route. With the AC chilling, you sit back, relax, and enjoy a smooth ride to your destination, confident in the journey ahead.
But that’s not all—they also show you every nook and cranny of the route, equipping you to navigate it on your own in the future.
Where am I going with all this?
That’s exactly what preparing for your relationship, courtship, marriage, and family life should look like. Without preparation, you risk wasted time, unnecessary pain, and costly mistakes.
Through our Signature Marriage Preparatory Programme, I’ll show you exactly how to prepare more than repair. I will share practical, real-life guides, true stories, and even the mistakes I’ve made—so you don’t have to.
A great, happy marriage is possible, and I want you to be part of that reality.
Let me introduce you to:
PREPARED, POLISHED AND POSITIONED FOR A PURPOSEFUL MARRIAGE
Prepared, Polished, and Positioned for a Purposeful Marriage is our Signature Marriage Preparatory Programme designed to equip the Aspiring Bride, Bride-to-be, and Newlywed to navigate singlehood, relationships, courtship, and the early years of marriage on the right foundation.
Through this transformative programme, you will gain the tools, knowledge, and strategies to build a thriving and purposeful marriage, rooted in love, understanding, and intentional preparation.
Whether you are preparing for the journey ahead or already stepping into marriage, this programme will guide you in laying the right groundwork to create a strong, fulfilling, and well-rounded family life.
Start your journey today—prepare more than repair!Ever heard the saying, “You can never be truly ‘ready’ for marriage”? While that may be true, you can certainly prepare and minimize your slips by working with a skilled archer. How? Stay with me.
Do you know someone—a friend, sister, girlfriend, colleague, daughter, neighbor, fiancée, or even yourself—who needs coaching on relationships, courtship, and marriage? Complaining isn’t the solution, preparation is!
Imagine a comprehensive programme with courses and modules that guides you or your loved one from being single to being in a relationship, to getting engaged, to getting married, and even to managing pregnancy and raising kids! Plus, we cover winning in finances, thriving in career and business, and so much more. Sounds fantastic, right? We’ve got you covered.
WHO SHOULD SIGN UP?
Are you someone who:
- Is single and wants to be confident enough to enter the right, fulfilling relationship?
- Has recently entered a relationship but feels clueless about making the most of each day?
- Just got engaged and is unsure of the steps to take for a smooth transition into marriage?
- A bride-to-be who wants to invest in creating a happily-ever-after experience?
- Is feeling nervous about meeting your in-laws-to-be and unsure of how to navigate the situation?
- Has a wedding planner but doesn’t know what requests to make or how to maximize their services?
- Is concerned about your wedding night or intimacy in marriage, but doesn’t know who to talk to, yet wants to enjoy a fulfilling sexual experience?
- Is planning your honeymoon but unsure of how to plan it or articulate your ideas properly?
- Has just gotten married and is looking for stability as you settle into married life and navigate its phases?
- A newlywed wanting to enjoy bonding moments with your partner before children arrive, and wondering how to plan properly for pregnancy?
- Is expecting a baby but feeling uncertain about how to handle this new phase?
- Is considering hiring domestic help but feels overwhelmed by the horror stories and is unsure how to proceed?
- Is a new mother feeling alone or overwhelmed by the changes in your life and your new baby?
- A wife and mother wanting to create a better home by balancing marriage, parenting, home management, family finances, and more?
If any of these sound like you—or someone you know—then you’re in the right place. Whether you’re preparing for a relationship, navigating courtship, or settling into married life, I have the solution you’ve been looking for.
Our programme is tailor-made to guide you every step of the way—helping you get prepared, polished, and positioned for a purposeful journey. Join us today and start your transformation and enjoy endless possibilities!
Getting this solution starts with your decision to say yes to wisdom. You know you need this, and there’s no better time than now to step into your desired future.
HOW TO REGISTER
- Click on the above enrol now icon.
- Select your desired level.
- Make payments through the links or a direct transfer to:
Account Name: Polished and Fit
Bank: GTBank
Account Number: 0586636380
- For direct payments through the site, you will be added to your class automatically while payment through transfer, you need to send your proof of payment to polishednfit@gmail.com and our team will respond to you within 24 hours.
LET ME INTRODUCE YOU TO SOME OF OUR POLISHED QUEENS
Listening to the early years’ module. It’s good to prepare o
. I feel so informed and ready 
Way more value received than the shikini money I paid . I am sure my bobo (when he arrives) will send you a token too. You are making his life (our lives) easier in advance 
Our mothers don’t document these things. I am glad you did this honestly . Thank you Coach FT.
Wow! thank God our path crossed. Omg! Now I know God loves me. Fentosky, these insights can only be inspired by the Holy Spirit. Your course is exactly what the world needs, there is a lot of pain, mistakes, anger and hate in relationships and marriages. On the other hand, there won’t be any of the above if we seek knowledge from God (the author of relationship and marriage) and courses like yours.
Polished and Fit is a premier Preparatory Academy and Finishing School for the Aspiring Bride, Bride-to-be, and Newlywed instituted to equip them as they prepare for and navigate singlehood, relationship, courtship, and marriage on the right foundation.
We are also a total family life management centre equipping young families with the needed information, strategies, skills and knowledge to manage their family lives effectively.
During the period of enrolment in our various trainings and engagement with our resources, our participants and clients are taken on a journey of personal-discovery, personal-mastery, emotion management and relationship management leading to readiness spiritually, emotionally, mentally, financially, relationally, and physically.
Our robust teaching curriculum covers various aspects of the family life, and excellent learning is aided through our premium faith-based resources, which are original, uniquely crafted and draws on divine inspiration, real-life situations, and experiences.
Polished and Fit launched her operations officially on the 31st of March 2020. Through our various expressions, we have directly served over 300 individuals and organizations from 5 continents, over 23 nations worldwide including Angola, Australia, Cameroon, Canada, Congo, Denmark, Germany, Ghana, France, Hungary, Ireland, Indonesia, Japan, Kenya, Lome, Malawi, Nigeria, Switzerland, The Gambia, Trinidad and Tobago, Uganda, U.K, U.S.A and counting.
We’ve received countless heartwarming testimonials from our valued clients, many of whom have rediscovered their singlehood with purpose, others who are now enjoying and thriving in productive relationships, and many more who have successfully transitioned into marriage and are flourishing. We also have clients who, already married, are experiencing blissful growth and progress in their marriages.
HAVE WE MET BEFORE?
MEET YOUR FACILITATOR
@ POLISHED AND FIT FAMILY LIFE PREPARATORY ACADEMY & FINISHING SCHOOL
Fehintoluwa Ademola-Adetuberu is a distinguished speaker, mentor, global leader, and Family Life Preparatory Coach, renowned for her expertise in empowering individuals and advancing organizations.
As the Founder and Lead Coach of Polished and Fit, a premier academy focused on equipping individuals for a purposeful family life, she guides clients to prepare through every stage of relationship, courtship, marriage, and family life on the right foundation.
She is also the CEO of The Refinery Resources International, where she drives business strategy and innovation to refine and elevate organizations towards greater success.
In addition, Fehintoluwa serves as the Executive Director and Co-facilitator at The Barricade Executive Protection, furthering her leadership in both personal and professional spheres.
With over fifteen years of experience in leadership, Fehintoluwa has cultivated a diverse and impactful skill set.
A graduate of Industrial Chemistry, she holds certifications as a Certified Media Presenter from PEFTI Film Institute, along with credentials in Management Training, Marriage and Family Counseling, and Mental Health and Addiction Counseling from accredited institutions.
Fehintoluwa has been a featured speaker at numerous prestigious events, both virtually and onsite, reaching an audience of over 15,000 individuals. Her notable speaking engagements include CBN Africa (700 Club Abuja) panel discussions, the NHN Meet and Greet 2020 virtual session, NHN 4th Anniversary event, NHN special singles’ session on Clubhouse, and NHN Women Network Retreats in Turkey 2022, Singapore 2023, and DOHA 2024, Raising Girls Summit 2024 Abuja among others.
In recognition of her impactful work, Fehintoluwa was honoured as one of the inspiring women of 2022 by the NHN Women Network and was named among the 110 outstanding women in Africa by The New Africa Magazine.
Married for 12 years and counting, Fehintoluwa shares her life with her purpose partner and is blessed with three sons.
CHOOSING THE RIGHT LEVEL FOR YOU
- As Faces Differ, So Do Needs
At Polished and Fit Family Life Academy, we recognize that every individual is unique, with distinct experiences and desires. That’s why we’ve crafted four transformational levels to guide you through your personal journey. Whether you’re just starting or seeking deeper insights, there’s a place for you here.
While each level is remarkable in its own way, we highly recommend the All-In-One Bundle for a complete and life-changing experience.
LEVEL 1: THE PRE-RELATIONSHIP REFINERY
(Preparing yourself before starting a relationship)
This foundational level is perfect for you if:
- You’re ready to meet yourself, discover your strengths, and understand how you’re uniquely built.
- You’re single but feel pressured to dive into a relationship despite knowing you’re not prepared.
- You’re currently in a relationship that’s draining you, leading you to seek answers from every source imaginable.
- You desire a thriving, healthy relationship but don’t know where to start.
- You find yourself admiring picture-perfect couples online and wondering, “God, when?” or jokingly asking, “Am I Your adopted daughter?”
- You’re faced with suitors but are unsure how to discern the right one or what qualities to prioritize.
- You’ve just experienced a breakup and are struggling to heal and move forward.
- You feel stuck in a “situationship” and long for clarity and purpose in your relationships.
- You’ve lost confidence due to past experiences and want to regain your esteem and rebuild your life.
- You want to navigate hormones, cold nights, and sexual urges with wisdom and strength as a single woman.
If any of these resonate with you, Level 1 is your game-changer. It is time to break free from confusion, doubt, and past mistakes.
What You’ll Gain:
- Clarity: Learn to identify your expectations, craft a personal vision for marriage, and discern qualities of a godly and reliable partner.
- Empowerment: Identify the signs to look out for in relationships and how to avoid emotional traps.
- Personal Growth: Uncover and address limiting habits, embrace healing from past wounds, and transform your mindset.
- Style Upgrade: Enhance your personal presentation from wardrobe essentials to grooming. Never feel “unfresh” again—you’ll exude confidence from the inside out.
- Practical Wisdom: Learn how to choose a mentor for your relationship, navigate attraction, and embrace the art of preparation for your future.
Let’s Talk About Expectations
We all have our dreamy checklist, don’t we? Maybe you’re looking for:
- Someone tall, dark, and handsome—your very own TDH king!
- The baritone voice that gives you chills.
- Dimples on fleek and six-pack abs that scream “fit and fabulous.”
- A beard gang champion, with a sharp haircut and well-groomed nails.
- Someone who makes you laugh till your ribs hurt, prays like a warrior, and serves breakfast in bed.
- A romantic who will propose in Paris or your dream destination, all while driving your dream car.
But here’s the question: Do you want a good engine or just a shiny paint?
This programme will help you go beyond the surface, dig deeper into what truly matters, and build a solid foundation for the love story you deserve.
What’s Next?
Don’t wait for the perfect moment—create it.
Sign up now for Level 1, and let’s refine, polish, and position you for a thriving, purposeful relationship.
The best time to start is now!
MORE ABOUT THE PROGRAMME
THE PROGRAMME IS 100% ONLINE & MOBILE-FRIENDLY
Access the courses anytime, anywhere, on any device. Currently available in audio format, the content is engaging and perfect for on-the-go listening—listen as many times as you like. With a mobile device and internet connection, you’re all set. You’ll also receive worksheets and in-depth tasks to help solidify your understanding.
PROGRAMME INVESTMENT FEE
There are four stand-alone levels, a double delight option, and an all-in-one bundle that combines all four levels.
You can choose from the stand-alone levels (Level 1, 2, 3, or 4), opt for the Double Delight (where you take two sessions at once), or go for the All-in-One Bundle (which combines all four levels for a complete experience. This is our best-seller and is highly recommended for both singles and married individuals).
Investment for Level Categories
Investment for Levels Offered:
Investment Rates:
Stand Alone Levels
Double Delight (Two Levels)
All-in-One Bundle (All Four Levels)
N40,000/ $80
N70,000/ $140
N120,000/$220
The self-paced version gives you immediate access to the course, allowing you to learn at your own pace outside of the yearly batches.
Payment Plans
We offer flexible payment options, including installment plans of up to four payments, to make it easier for you to access the programme.
Paying in Installments
Levels
1st Installment
2nd Installment
Stand Alone Levels
Double Delight (Two Levels)
All-in-One Bundle (All Four Levels)
N21, 000/ $25
N36,000/$75
N61,000/$115
N21, 000/ $25
N36,000/$75
N61,000/$115
PROGRAMME DURATION
Each level runs for 4 weeks, double delight for 7 weeks while the all-in-one bundle runs for 12 weeks.
27 Modules
Over 40 hours of learning
27 worksheets
12 weeks
A NOTE FROM COACH FT
Polished and Fit was born from my deep desire to help individuals navigate relationships and family life on a solid foundation. What started as a passion to support those around me in their relationship journeys soon grew into a global movement.
From offering prayer support to launching an online talk show, I discovered how much I loved equipping others with tools to thrive in their marriages and family lives. In 2020, after much prayer and reflection, I founded Polished and Fit to provide lasting solutions to women and families worldwide.
Since then, we’ve served clients across five continents and over 23 nations, and I’m constantly inspired by their stories of growth, success, and fulfillment. I am deeply committed to helping you build a purposeful relationship and family life with wisdom, knowledge, and practical strategies.
More testimonials from our Polished Queens
THIS IS WHAT YOU WILL LEARN INSIDE THE ACADEMY
The beauty of the programme is that it meets you right where you are. It is divided into 4 levels to give you your much desired result right where you are.
LEVEL ONE
LEVEL 1 - THE PRE-RELATIONSHIP REFINERY
(Preparing yourself before you start a relationship)
LEVEL TWO
LEVEL 2 - THE RELATIONSHIP GROWTH KIT
(Maximizing your relationship and courtship for purpose and productivity)
LEVEL THREE
LEVEL 3 - THE WEDDING & THE WELDING PROCESS (Two becoming one; getting married)
LEVEL FOUR
LEVEL 4 – NAVIGATING THE WOODS -THE EARLY YEARS MARRIAGE WISDOM
(Gaining stability to thrive in the early years of marriage)
Ready to elevate?
Have you thought of what winning before you even start feels like?
So good right?
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SAY OUT LOUD: I am ready to be prepared, polished, and positioned for purposeful singlehood, productive relationship, and peaceful marriage.
Send a message immediately to polishednfit@gmail.com and get an answer to your question.
